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Once a week I send The Overlap, one honest note on dating for men who want something real. Usually a story from my 46 dates or a piece of research most people get wrong, and one practical shift you can try that week. Sign to start receiving practical dating insights.

you’re not for everyone. that’s not a problem, that’s the strategy.

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WHERE THIS IS COMING FROM

Hi, I'm Michael. I am a software engineer and a divorced dad. After my divorce I was genuinely bad at dating. I bombed the early ones. So I did the only thing I know how to do. I treated it like debugging. Isolate the problem, test a fix, keep what works. Forty-six first dates later, I got engaged.

This guide is that system, written down.

WHO THIS IS FOR

-> You are a man 30 or older and back in the dating world, and you mean it this time.

-> You aren't interested in pickup tactics and advice that treats maturity like a liability instead of the asset it is.

-> You are a woman who is interested in dating men who are ready for something real and want a safe space to join the conversation about intentional dating.

if that's you, we're going to get along.